Is marriage is a must

In the myth and believes, they say that in early days there are no men and women, there are only people who’s complete. Because of this matter doesn’t need to have a marriage or a sexual relationship in their life. But once, the God has separated them as men and women, after that they seek for their other half to make there life fulfill. This is what the history tells us.

But the science explains it as, one type of DNA in a person looks for the best match for it, But as in my knowledge and 19 years of my life I experienced, I think marriage doesn’t consist both the points. It’s the intention of each and every individual that makes the marriage so important. For an example if you go out and ask some people “why do you need a marriage?” each and every individual has a different answer to tell. Marriage is not a pure advancement of a relationship between a man and women. There’s more inside stories to make. People say that a marriage couple or lovers don’t have secrets in their life, but still there are. Think about it.

I have some points in my mind that why do people need a marriage life. Some need a marriage because their parents need so, that is one of the worse decision that a parent can make and your bad moment of accepting a decision without any judgment. But the parents can think that “My son / Daughter should have a good future”, so they should marry. The first point is, did the parents ask from them that they really need this or do you wish to do this. This is one of the biggest problems in Asian countries. Parents need to free their minds, they need to take off the risk in their life. In my point of view I total disagree with the decision. They should ask them, they are the one who’s going to live their life together.

Some need a marriage life to make his life going without any risk. Most of the men do this kind of things (as in my knowledge, but there’s an incident made my mind that I’m wrong, women do the same thing). They look for a family that has money, assets and a good job, etc. I think you also feel that this is so wrong. But can’t help with this matter. It really happens.

As a advice or any, what I want to say is that ask your self the question that do you really need a marriage? If yes, what I’m gonna tell you is build a good relationship and think of a marriage.

Any way I strongly believe that the marriage is not a must in every ones life. It should be an optional event in the life. Some people think that it’s a must, and ruin their personal and marriage life, just for nothing. The person should have the faith and courage to tell him self that I can live my life and make my future a better one with out a partner in my life.